We were sorry to hear that Charles had departed this world and that Lesley will now have to adapt to life without her incorrigible partner. We met Charles and Lesley well over 30 years ago through our joint love of sailing, good food and wine and the natural world. We have shared all of those together, in Portsmouth and the Solent, Polruan and Cornwall and at the holiday home which we had in Normandy. Charles was very excited when he discovered that lizard orchids had appeared in the wild part of the French garden so we like the donation choice. He was always someone who did not stint on filling a supper with generosity and giggles and great to share time with on sailing trips. One of the most memorable of our times together was the transition from the 20th to 21st century which we marked with a party at Polruan - rich food, sparkling wine, fireworks but, above all, a happy few days with close friends. Thinking of you Lesley and we hope to see you next week for a hug.

Charles and I first met at school, the Queen Elizabeth 1 grammar school in Darlington. We pursued similar subjects like Maths, Physics and Chemistry and were the best of pals. We went to many youth clubs, dances and parties together and shared girl friends. Charles introduced me to Buddy Holly (I have his entire set of recordings) and taught me how to clean my teeth properly. We both went on to university in Newcastle. Although we were in different halls and doing different courses we still met up in the students union and at R&B sessions. After Uni we both went out separate ways, but Charles was best man at my wedding to Pat. We also developed a shared interest in sailing. Although we only met up again occasionally the rest of our lives, we had an easy friendship and seemed to be able to pick up where we left off. A man of diverse interests and a dry sense of humour, he will be remembered fondly. Our thoughts are with Lesley and the family.